Thinking of coming down as a couple....just one of our stops for the night.....we plan on just having a drink or two and I kinda wanna get a private dance for me and my wife....will they actually lap dance her?  That's really hot, and really the reason we're coming down, cuz I'd love to see that!  I've been told it's about $25 each for the private....what kind of tips am I expected to give?  Do I tip while at a table, and how much?  Do I tip during and/or after a private dance, and how much?  And what kind of "fun" should I expect in the private dance, being that I've never had one, and am curious?  Thanks for any info!!